In most family law cases, the courts want children to have a strong and ongoing relationship with both parents. But there are situations where a court may decide to limit or even deny contact with one parent.

This doesn’t happen often—and only when there’s a clear reason. The main concern is always the safety and wellbeing of the child.

This page explains when this might happen, what the court looks for, and how to address concerns if you’re affected.

Why Contact Might Be Restricted

The court will only limit a parent’s time with a child if it believes there’s a risk of harm.

This can include:

• Family violence or abuse (physical, emotional, sexual)

• Serious drug or alcohol issues

• Neglect or unsafe living conditions

• High-conflict behaviour that affects the child’s mental health

Example:
Alex had a history of heavy drinking and unpredictable behaviour. His former partner was concerned for their daughter’s safety. The court ordered supervised visits until Alex completed a rehab program and parenting course.

Types of Contact Restrictions

If the court has concerns, it may:

• Order supervised visits (a relative or professional is present)

• Limit overnight stays

• Reduce the frequency of visits

• Require drug testing or counselling

• Temporarily suspend contact until safety is proven

These orders aren’t about punishment—they’re about protecting the child while keeping the door open for future involvement, where appropriate.

Can Contact Be Reinstated Later?

Yes. If circumstances improve, a parent can return to court and ask for more time or different arrangements.

Example:
Once Alex showed he had maintained sobriety and engaged with support services, the court gradually increased his parenting time.

False Allegations: What If It’s Not True?

If one parent falsely accuses the other to block contact, the court takes this seriously. Judges will look at:

• Evidence (police reports, witness statements, medical records)

• Behaviour patterns

• Whether one parent is trying to alienate the child from the other

The court may change parenting arrangements if it finds deliberate obstruction or manipulation.

What If You’re the Parent Being Limited?

This can be painful—but it’s not always permanent. Focus on:

• Following any court orders

• Engaging in parenting programs or support services

• Showing the court that you’re committed and safe

What matters most is your willingness to put your child first—and prove you’re ready to rebuild trust.

Final Thought

Contact limits are rare—and only used to protect children. The law is designed to help families heal, not punish.

At Aussie Divorce, we give you a clear understanding of your rights and options—without legal jargon—so you can take steps toward better outcomes.