I’m Alan Weiss, founder of Aussie Divorce, and I create plain-English resources to help Australians navigate separation and divorce with more clarity, confidence, and less cost.
Through my podcast, I break down complex family law topics—like property settlements, parenting arrangements, financial stress, and emotional recovery—into practical steps you can use.
I don’t give legal advice, but I do share real, lived experience and insights from over 20 years of helping people through this difficult stage of life. My mission is simple: to help you make smarter decisions, ask the right questions, and save money on legal fees, while feeling more in control of your future.
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Alan discuss how to approach this tough conversation with clarity, respect, and safety—and why it sets the tone for everything that follows.
share how to break the news with care—using the right words, routines, and support to reduce guilt, stress, and long-term anxiety.
Alan break down what Parenting Orders are, how they work, and what parents need to know about making, changing, or enforcing them.
Alan shares what really happens in the first week—from emotional shock to legal timelines—and the simple steps that help you avoid costly mistakes.
Alan explores why separation feels like grief, how stress impacts decision-making, and how routines, support, and mindset can turn survival into growth.
Alan unpacks common misconceptions, timelines, and why knowing the difference can save money and protect your future.
Alan explains how parents can reduce guilt, protect children’s wellbeing, and set them up for healthier future relationships.
Alan talks about how separation works when you’re still living together: who pays what, sleeping arrangements, what the law says, and how to prove it later in court.
Good records can save you thousands in legal fees and make your property settlement smoother. In this episode, Alan explain why financial disclosure matters, what documents you need, and how being organised protects you during separation.
Alan explains how mediation works, what it covers, and why it often gives separating couples more control, less stress, and lower costs.
Alan shares how to find the right lawyer, what fees to expect, red flags to avoid, and how to stay in control of your case
Changing Parenting Orders – Parenting orders aren’t set in stone. Alan Weiss and Hanna explain when and how they can be changed in Australia, what counts as a “significant change,” and real-life examples of when the Court will vary orders.
Alan breaks down parenting orders in Australia: what they cover, how they’re made, what happens if they’re breached, and why they’re all about the best interests of the child.
Unpack why mediation is often faster, cheaper, and less stressful than going to court—and how it gives parents more control over the outcome.
A;an explains how FDR helps parents reduce conflict, save money, and create healthier outcomes for children—without going to court.
Children often blame themselves when parents split. Alan Weiss and guest Hanna share practical ways to break the news gently, reduce guilt, and support kids’ emotional wellbeing.
Divorce isn’t just about parents—it’s about protecting children’s wellbeing. Alan explains why the law prioritises the child’s best interests, and how cooperation leads to healthier outcomes for families.
Separation affects kids the most. Alan unpacks why Australian family law focuses on the child’s best interests—and how cooperation, not conflict, leads to healthier outcomes for everyone.
Life doesn’t stand still, and neither does child support. Alan explains how job loss, new partners, overseas moves, and kids turning 18 affect child support in Australia, with real-life examples.
From “I don’t work so I don’t pay” to “my new partner’s income counts,” Alan busts the most common misconceptions about child support in Australia, with clear explanations and real-life examples.
Child support debt isn’t optional. Alan explains the strong enforcement powers of Services Australia — from wage garnishes to passport bans — with real Australian examples.
Alan explains when and how you can change or appeal a child support assessment in Australia, the process step by step, and real examples of parents who challenged unfair decisions
Alan explains limited vs. binding agreements, how they work, and why formalising them is crucial for protecting both parents and kids.
Alan explains what’s included in child support, what’s not, and why private agreements are often needed for extras.
Alan explains the formula, step by step, with real examples of how income and care percentages affect payments.
Child support in Australia isn’t just a payment, it’s a whole system. Alan explains how it works, what the formula looks at, and why it’s about fairness for kids, not punishing parents.
Child support usually ends at 18, but not always. Alan explains when parents may need to keep supporting children into adulthood, with real-life Australian examples.
Alan explains interim orders in Australia: what they are, why they matter, the types (parenting and financial), and the process of getting them — with real examples.
Injunctions are court orders that stop harm before it happens. Alan explains how they protect people from violence and property from being sold, with real Australian examples.
Who stays in the family home after separation? Alan explains how courts decide, with examples of cases involving children, safety concerns, and conflict under one roof.
Can you lock out your ex after separation? Alan explains what Australian law says about changing locks, when you need a court order, and the role of safety and occupancy rights.
It might sound fair to split everything equally, but the Family Court looks deeper. Alan explains why property settlements are based on contributions and future needs—not automatic halves.
Alan explains the Family Law Act’s four-step approach, hidden assets, and why fair doesn’t always mean equal—plus how mediation can save thousands.
Alan explains how Family Dispute Resolution and co-parenting tools help parents save money, lower conflict, and build healthier futures for kids.
Alan unpacks why divorce isn’t about blame but time—12 months of separation—and how this system reduces conflict, costs, and stress for families.
explains the surprising rights de facto couples have, the strict two-year deadline, and why misunderstanding the rules can cost your financial future.
Alan reveals the three biggest money traps—hiding assets, emotional decisions, and ignored debts—that can slash wealth after separation.
Alan unpack how spousal maintenance works in Australia—temporary, needs-based support that helps separated partners rebuild independence.
Alan explains why names on the title don’t decide property settlements—and how courts focus on fairness, contributions, and future needs.
Alan explains why super is a crucial part of property settlements, how it’s divided, and why it matters for long-term security and dignity.
Alan shares his own experience on how to accept, learn, and move forward after separation. With practical advice on kids, friends, and rebuilding confidence, this episode shows why closure is the key to a fresh start.
Alan shares his own experience navigating dating after separation: what to tell someone new, what to avoid, and how to handle relationships where children or future plans are in the mix.
Alan discuss where to start after divorce: supporting the kids, managing in-laws, keeping true friends, and rebuilding your work and identity.