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A costs order is when the Family Court or Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) directs one party to pay some or all of the legal costs of the other party. These orders are not automatic—they’re made in specific situations, often to discourage unnecessary litigation or to compensate someone for being dragged into court unfairly.
In simpler terms:
If you’ve had to spend money on a lawyer because of the other party’s unreasonable behaviour or legal tactics, you may be able to ask the court to make them pay for it.
You can apply for a costs order during or after family law proceedings, including matters involving:
Parenting arrangements
Property settlement
Divorce
Spousal maintenance
Interim applications (e.g., injunctions or occupancy orders)
Common situations where costs orders are considered:
One party has clearly misused the court process (e.g., dragged it out on purpose).
A party has acted dishonestly, unreasonably, or failed to comply with court directions.
One side has unnecessarily increased the cost of the proceedings.
A party has refused to negotiate when settlement was possible.
Example
Let’s say you’re in a parenting dispute, and your ex refuses to attend mediation, delays filing documents, and cancels court dates without good reason. This kind of behaviour wastes your time and money. The court may order your ex to cover part of your legal costs.
Include It in Your Application or Response
If you believe a costs order may be necessary, include a request for it in your Initiating Application, Response, or Affidavit.
Gather Evidence
Keep records of all the ways the other party has acted unreasonably. This might include:
Missed deadlines
Ignored settlement offers
Court attendance records
Extra legal bills caused by delays
Raise It at the Right Time
You can bring up costs during interim hearings or at the final hearing, depending on the situation. The court may deal with costs separately after the main decision is made.
The court considers several things before making a costs order, including:
Whether the party acted in good faith
Whether they followed court directions and procedures
The financial situation of both parties
Whether an offer to settle was made but rejected unreasonably
The outcome of the case (e.g., if one side clearly “won”)
The court’s main goal is fairness. Costs orders are not meant to punish but to discourage bad behaviour and make the process smoother for everyone.
Party/Party Costs: Most common. One side pays a portion of the legal costs of the other.
Indemnity Costs: Rare. One side pays almost all the other’s legal costs, usually for very bad behaviour.
No Order as to Costs: Each party pays their own, which is the default in most family law matters.
Do You Need a Lawyer to Apply?
You don’t have to have a lawyer to ask for a costs order—but it can help. A lawyer can:
Help draft your request properly
Make sure your evidence is solid
Represent you during a costs hearing
That said, self-represented parties can and do apply for costs successfully, especially if the other party has clearly wasted time or acted unfairly.
Key Takeaways
Costs orders are not automatic—they’re based on conduct and fairness.
You can request one during or after family law proceedings.
Keep detailed records of unreasonable behaviour or delays.
The court focuses on whether one party has made the process harder than it needed to be.
Legal advice can help, but you can apply on your own if needed.
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