Why Preparation Matters
If you’re separating or getting divorced, your family lawyer can’t help you unless they have the full picture. The better prepared you are, the faster—and cheaper—your matter can be resolved. Bringing the right documents and information upfront can save you hours in legal fees and avoid unnecessary delays.
What Your Family Lawyer Needs From You
1. Personal Details
- Full name, date of birth, address, occupation
- Same for your former partner/spouse
- Details of any children, including names, ages, and current living arrangements
2. Relationship Information
- Date you started living together
- Date of marriage (if applicable)
- Date of separation
- Any previous court orders, agreements, or parenting plans
3. Financial Documents (for property settlement or spousal maintenance matters)
- Recent tax returns and notices of assessment (last 3 years)
- Bank statements for all accounts (personal, joint, business)
- Superannuation statements
- Payslips or income details (self-employed clients may need business financials)
- Credit card statements and loan documents
- Property valuations or rates notices
- Lists of assets and liabilities (e.g. cars, shares, mortgages, personal loans)
4. Parenting-Related Information (if children are involved)
- Current parenting arrangements
- Concerns about safety, schooling, or health
- Communication records (texts/emails) between you and the other parent
- School reports or health reports (if relevant)
5. Evidence of Family Violence or Risk (if applicable)
- Police reports, DVOs, or AVOs
- Medical reports or counsellor notes
- Diary entries or messages that support your concerns
How to Prepare for Your First Meeting
- Bring all documents in an organised folder—physical or digital
- Write down a brief timeline of your relationship and separation
- Make a list of key questions or concerns you want to discuss
- Be honest—even if something feels uncomfortable. Your lawyer is there to help, not judge.
Why This Matters
Without complete and accurate information, your lawyer may be working with one hand tied behind their back. Being transparent and organised helps your lawyer give you better advice, faster—and reduces legal costs.